What is the matter with people?

I was just cleaning out my messages on Facebook, attempting to condense the clutter and BAM. This old message from this kid. I get he thought he was protecting her. I get he thought he was doing the right thing. But, messaging a complete stranger and telling her that she shouldn't put her problems onto his "friend"? HIS FRIEND?! He knows nothing about her. She can't even tell those people who she is. He doesn't know anything about me! What gave him the right?

It makes me angry because I let this go. She didn't answer, I added her to the proverbial list, and then it was done. Keep my head up and move on. It took some effort, but I did it because she forced me to. She did all of this (and I'm sure she'll love the credit because she loves thinking she is this awful person).

Also, I WAS SO HAPPY AND GOOD BEFORE SHE CAME ALONG. I had my shit so together. I was putting my problems on her? They were problems she exasperated! I am always one to admit when I am wrong, when I did something, but in this case I don't think I did. What could I have done differently with her? I wasn't trying to change her, I just wanted her to be who I knew she was and wasn't strong enough to be. At least in certain aspects.

Any information I had wrong about the people in her life came from her. If it was skewed, it was skewed because of her.

*deep breath*

I am going to calm down and let this go again, but I did not deserve this. I did not deserve to have this brought up because she keeps everyone at arms length and only gives the skewed information she wants to.

It is my fault I let her in despite my better judgement, but who knew it would extend to every dysfunctional person in her life? Not cool, not okay.

Wow. Just a wow moment... Over it now. Going back to watching Goodfellas. Godspeed.

"And that's the hardest part. Today everything is different; there's no action... have to wait around like everyone else."